Tantra Tip #11 Interest in Sex
Some people say it’s biological. Animal species like to move around to different partners to keep blood lines adaptable and strong. But, we really are more than animals. We have the ability to actually mate and choose with our cognitive brain as well as our animal body. I think blocked emotions diminish interest in sex. Learning how to have playful movement where energy is expressed, and clear and useful conflict tools that move the emotional body are essential.
Another common reason for loss of interest in sex is it becomes routine. Same old way of engaging. Or having make up sex. Studying tantra and bringing in new ideas can make a world of difference. Many relationship problems can be solved by reintegrating sex into your routine. Sex renews couples energetically, emotionally, and spiritually when conflicts are out of the way. Also, adding awareness of different kinds of touch can make you more aware of sensations in your body so you can process conflict in a much more productive way.
- Learn to wrestle playfully. Healthy pushing can be fun. Use the whole body and don’t try to win!
- Ask your partner for a touch session, where they give you different kinds of touch to your skin and muscles. Be curious and playful with this game.
- Make up a date night game. Like guess where we are going? Oh, do you have a “date night?” So important for parents to get time alone together! Be sure you get that baby sitter or relative to take care of the little ones!
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